If something feels well and correct and you hold that it is what you really, really, really want? Go for it! You are the only one who can make that call. Friends, family, professional confidants and counselors such as myself can help you but ultimately it is you - in cahoots with the Divine – that will decide what is for you.
If you feel unworthy or undeserving of your desires? Well, even the Divine can’t help you there.
This is solo work my friend.
It is challenging enough just to define what we want. Digging deep isn’t always enough. Especially when you have “feelings” about who you are and what you deserve. Subtle energetic blocking may occur and stuck you shall be until you feel you have earned the right to ask.
Now it really complicates matters when what we decide we want must actually come from another human being. A human you may have some tired and layered history with. It can prove daunting. In my experience getting all worked up over a possible “no” is more painful than the “no” itself.
So… here’s the thing.
When trying to fulfill your desires while someone else is holding the power card? Be it your boss or The Boss… state your case simply. If an argument ensues (in your head or otherwise) take responsibility for your half of the heat. Chances are you have been obsessing about this subject for awhile and have brought some anger and confusion to the table before you ever asked. Own it and let it go.
A human will usually give you a yes, no, or maybe.
If the Divine is the Sugar Mama holding the blessing? Patience is required Dear One.
Miracles happen in a moment but the Divine will generally move like She is driving in a school zone. On the bright side at least with the Divine the answer will always be standard issue. If it is not in the Highest Good? No matter how brilliantly you have stated your case your request will not be fulfilled.
Another human may say yes, give you exactly what you ask for, and your answered prayer is now your nightmare.
We are not now nor will we ever be perfect. And have you noticed how other people are really imperfect?! HAhahaha!
If you don’t believe you are deserving or worthy of something ask anyway. It can’t hurt. You will never keep what is not yours. If you are strong enough to carry the weight your desire it will realize.
*For all those in The Friday’s Child Circle of Prayers and for all those in need. We send… Love, Light and Oceans of Bliss for the Highest Good of All. And so it is.
Have a sweet one!